Kylie D Fae

I started what I called “project soften” in 2017.

I was pregnant with my youngest son at the time, and I felt on a visceral,

physical level all the hardness in me that I had to build up to be able to survive my life.

As my physical body softened with my growing baby,

the parts of my energy that were hard and begging not to be got louder and louder. 

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I wasn’t in survival anymore,

this new phase of my life was safe.

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That person I had to be,

the beast, the warrior,

didn’t fit into my current circumstances. 

 

And the result of being inauthentically hardened? 

 

Complete friction, everywhere.

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With my husband, my first child,

everyone I had to interact with in a moment that I didn’t feel safe because of my past.

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Then came the guilt.

 

That sticky feeling we all get when we know we hurt someone in an outburst or harsh, cold words.

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This is the cost of living in a way that is no longer in alignment

- it hurts ourselves and the ones we love.

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The other side effect is not being able to feel all of the joyful,

pleasurable experiences life so desperately wants to give us

- that we long for just as much.

 

Numbness might mean some protection,

but it also means you can’t feel the good.

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In 2020, I started running the immersive experience, Soften. 

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It’s changed, grown, and reshaped over time into something wildly transformative for everyone that participates,

myself included.

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It is the merging of the inner mother and father god,

a deep de-armouring, a letting go, a setting free of self, a gentle blooming, a massive release.

 

It’s a loving connection with the inner child rebuilt,

an expanded capacity for bliss,

a sense of inner safety restored,

a sense of calm in surrender,

permission for slowness,

compassion for self,

and remembering who you are. 

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Here’s what people have had to say -

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“Tonight's call was something entirely different from anything l've ever experienced. I've worked with Kylie off and on over the past four years, and each level of her magic and depth has aided my healing in ways I never imagined, but tonight was next level. I was blown away by how we were guided, even in my total discomfort and resistance with the masculine, to such a strong, loving, and warm space. I cried a LOT tonight, had heart palpitations and shivers down the masculine side of my body, but I noticed myself stretching out. I kept letting my arms and legs reach out around me, crying a little more, then relaxing and falling even deeper in this amazing space. Sort of like a trust fall that kept going deeper and deeper every time I stepped back off the edge and let go.

I had originally wanted to send this experience and big thank you to Kylie privately, but I know it helps others to hear/read moments, and recall their own when we share. Tonight was amazing, and everything I never knew I needed.

Kylie, I don't know how you do it, but thank you for all you do. I love you.”

 

“I was going to write this right after the call, but I needed time to sit with what happened. I remember shaking my head, thinking what the hell just happened?-so I went inward, journaled, and gave it space. It felt too important not to.

Like others have shared, I experienced something massive. l've worked with Kylie for a while now, and each time has been both magical as fuck and deeply healing. But last call... it blew my mind and my soul wide open. I don't even fully have the words for it-just a knowing that something ancient, embedded deep in my being, has finally shifted.

It felt like the pipes had been backed up for lifetimes— and suddenly everything exploded out: the mud, the shit, the weight. And now there's this clear, sparkling space.

The mental fog is gone. I feel lighter, more spacious than I have in years. There's peace. There's freedom. And my creative spark has come alive again.

The imprint of "Father God" as distant, judging, or withholding-something I'd long grown accustomed to— is dissolving. That old subconscious feeling of not being truly safe, chosen, or fathered has lifted. And now I feel washed in the presence of the Divine Father-a calm, unwavering force within me. This session untethered me from a false version of masculine divinity and opened the gateway back to innocence, to safety, to being held.”

 

“Rebirth.

That's the only word that comes to mind after last night's closing call. For me, soften has been a process of rebirth. I fell asleep almost instantly, had glimpses of talking to my inner child, and woke up just before everyone was wishing B a happy birthday. I didn't catch on to the significance of that until just now. It all fits.”

 

“Something very real shifted today. I didn't just soften, I opened. And this time, it didn't break me, it made me so much more whole. I reclaimed my power, the part of me that once felt powerless to create joy and to be met fully in my tenderness, I just took back the wand.

I remembered that I am the one who creates my experiences now. I witnessed the pain of the past, but this time I didn’t run from it. Instead I became the wise one, the one who holds herself meeting my own pain with wisdom and grace and something broke open and healed.

A new connection with joy has awakened, the quiet, soul filling kind from knowing that I belong to myself, I am loved, I am enough and I can feel fulfilled even when others don't show up how I hoped.

I have tapped into a deeper inner knowing the part of me l always knew I was sacred has come back online. I have shifted from external validation to internal initiation.

A soul initiation into grounded hope and inner fulfillment. A reclaiming of my ability to hold my own heart with wisdom. A healing of the disappointment wound, especially tied to birthdays, friendship, and being remembered.

A new foundation where my heart can trust hope again, not because someone else proves it to you, but because you've chosen to live as a sacred, magical being.

A connection to the wise, sacred, mystic soul within you — the one who holds both sorrow and radiance at once.”

 

You may be surprised to hear, that of all my vessels of transformation - this one is the most deep, and the most difficult. Softening the hardened parts of us feels like life and death, because at one point in your life, it may have truly been.

 

If you are ready to be gently held through this big work, Soften is for you.

 

In this transformative 4 month long container, you will get the perfect support blended with frequency alignments and power washing of the old so that you can come home to the you that you were always meant to be. The you that existed before all of life’s pain and heaviness - but with all the wisdom and power that comes through these experiences.

 

Soften runs every spring, as the earth around us softens from the freeze, and green grass and sweet little blossoms begin to bloom.

 

Apply here to be put on the wait list.